must love dogs

i read Stephanie's blog and am inspired to do the same thing. i wouldn't call them commandments, simply because i'm catholic and already have commandments. instead i'll call these the guidelines. (if you don't know what i'm talking about, it's about guys)

1 - Tough- i like guys who are tough. in moderation, however. if the guy constantly says he's tough when he doesn't walk the walk, then it's probably the biggest turn off for me.
2 - Good taste in music. if he likes Nickelback or Simple Plan or Billy Talent or any other music i consider absolute shit, it's also one of the biggest turn-offs.
3 - Mustn't possess spiky hair. very boy band. the only man in my life who makes me wild for his spiky hair is David Silver on Beverly Hills 90210.
4 - Goofy and mellow. perfect compliment of my worrisome self.
5 - Must show me respect. to some extent. if he shows me too much respect i lose interest.
6 - Diverse. must show some interest in the same things i do. fashion, art, movies, music. also must be diverse in the way that he can make me laugh but can also have a serious conversation with.
7 - Good bone structure. very important in the face and the body =) it's a must. i'm surprised i didn't place that first.
8 - Must have a job. not because i'm a gold-digger, but because that way we spend some time apart. and that makes me crazy.


you know what. i'm not even going to finish it. a lot of my friends find that all the guys i like are so different from each other. there really isn't a guideline because i'm interested in so many different things. i've been interested in the spanish soccer player type, the drug dealer type, the good guy hockey player type, the asian type, the motorcycle riding type, the artsy Where's-Waldo-glasses-wearing type, the fashionisto type and the bass player outdoorsy type.

i guess my one and only guideline really consists of this: MUST GIVE ME BUTTERFLIES.