put off for too long

when you think about certain situations, do you often jump to conclusions ? i've come to believe that when people suspect a certain circumstance, it's because that's how they themselves would have probably acted if it was them in that situation. for example, ok so i'm going to make up a scenario off the top of my head, and to make it clearer for you, i will insert names of people i don't even know personally. alright, so let's say Christina Aguilera and Cameron Diaz are best friends. Justin Timberlake takes Christina Aguilera to a hockey game, so of course, Cameron Diaz may start suspecting things. BUT ONLY because if it was Cameron Diaz going to the hockey game with Wade Robson, she wouldn't help but flirt a little here and there and maybe be a teensy weensy attracted. so therefore, Cameron is led to believe that because what she would do in that situation is unfaithful, so would anyone else. because, let's face it, Cameron Diaz and all other humans with thinking capabilites like to believe everyone thinks and acts the same as them. it's just human nature. WHEN REALLY, everyone thinks and acts differently from everyone else, although Cameron Diaz would like to think otherwise, simply because she has been done wrong in the past.. and maybe because she's probably a little bit insecure about herself and doesn't trust as freely as she would like (which could be good or bad.. depending on how badly it affects her relationships.. which is probably a lot, making it a negative trait), making her feel unworthy of anyone's affection or attention. if you got lost there, read that sentence without the parentheses there (thats what i do haha). anyways, i'm just saying that people jump to conclusions simply because that's probably what would have happened if they were in the situation. well, it's like that for Cameron Diaz, at least. and this story has no similarities to my own real life and experiences (except the moral of course), and Cameron Diaz does not in any way replace myself in this little parable. .... i've just been putting this theory off into the back of the depths of my mind for too long, and i just thought i would come out with it. =)

and just to finish the story on a good note, Cameron Diaz and Christina Aguilera continued having a loving, blossoming friendship

ps. don't go assuming.. because i rarely discuss my personal life in this journal.